A Very Crafty Christmas

Since moving to Korea every purchase I make, I second guess. I don't want to waste money on random stuff that I won't be able to take with me or ship home when we leave. With this in mind, I just couldn't justify spending money on a fake Christmas tree and loads of decorations. Instead, I vowed to use my crafty skills to spread the Christmas love in our apartment.

Our tree is made out of a cardboard box left over from the teachers we replaced. The star we found in our apartment, the paper chain is made from left over art supplies from school, and we made snowflakes out of white computer paper we had lying around.

I learned how to make paper cranes over the weekend and have made over 50 already! How many do you have to make before you get a wish? Maybe I'll do that... Wishes are fun. :) 

Spencer made us a paper chain to count down the days until Christmas, which is also the days until our winter vacation (woo!). Also, I love the mini snowflakes. They are adorable.

It's been really fun to craft and decorate! I'm feeling very festive. Do you know of any other home made stuff we can make with things we might have lying around??

Things I Miss

If you caught my previous post, you know I am currently in a funk. I'm perking up a bit now that my cold seems to be finally subsiding (yay!) but while I was down I was thinking about all the things I miss most about life in Califonia. I know this is super counter productive and bad for me when I know I can't get any of these things BUT it also helps to just write it out and then let it go.
   
So here it is, the things I miss the most:

• random conversations with strangers - now we have random interactions with strangers which are funny in their own right but not as good as convos
• decent chewing gum - for reals...the flavor lasts about three minutes tops
• Mexican food - especially chips and good salsa, avocados, and street tacos
• being able to read store signs - Imagine walking into your local Target and they changed everything around over night. Then imagine that there are no signs anywhere pointing you in the right direction. How do you find what you need? You walk. Around. EVERYWHERE. It can be very frustrating.
• wall to wall carpeting - It feels so nice! ...but floor heating is pretty cool, too.
  
• magazines - I love glossy paper and I love being able to read the words on it.
  
• NPR on my car radio every morning - NPR is awesome. Sometimes I stream it online but listening every morning on the way to work really kept me in the loop on global events.
• bookstores where I can read the merchandise - I love bookstores. The smell alone makes me want to spend hours in there. Of course, I can't spend hours in there if I can't read any of the books. Well, I could but I totally would never do that.
• diversity - This is kinda funny, but whenever I see someone who is not Korean, I am surprised.
• driving to San Francisco to visit friends - I miss SF, my friends that live there, and all the glorious things we can do together. It's a great city.
• yoga class - I'm not very good at keeping up a regular home practice but I love to take classes. I know there are some yoga classes available in Suncheon but I've been reluctant to go. Mostly because what really makes a good class is the teacher and what they're saying and how they say it. I do want to try and take a class though because I'm curious to see the Korean approach to yoga. 
• online shopping- Online shopping is brilliant. I used to shop online allll the time back at home. I think it's so great because you get that happy I-just-bought-something-new-and-beautiful feeling not once, but TWO times: when you first purchase it and when it comes in the mail. It's so much fun. (p.s. practically no one ships to Korea.)
• Target - I miss the familiarity of it. I miss knowing all the brands and which ones I like. I miss the cheap clothes and the cute home decor.
• soft beds - A lot of Koreans sleep on the floor so I should be happy I even have a bed! Still, my bed at home was a pillow top mattress with memory foam and my bed here is like sleeping on the floor with three sleeping bags underneath. Not really hard, but hard enough.
• comet (the cleaning product) - I used to clean with it a lot back home and can't find anything like it here. Now, I use bleach with water and I miss the green foam.
• having an oven - I was so spoiled before; I had a toaster oven AND a big oven! Now, I have none. We are planning on buying a toaster oven.
• turkey sandwiches - My BFF told me I would miss them and she was totally right. Turkey sandwiches are delicious and sorely missed.

Just a wee note: these are all the things I miss from home. There are also many people I miss from home and I'm sure you know who you are! Love you guys! <3

What do you miss most from home when you travel??

I'm in a Funk

I'm not feeling so hot right now. I'm feeling very worn down, tired, sick, and miserable. The novelty of living in Korea has worn off and everything is pretty normal now. We go to the grocery store, we make dinner, we eat popcorn, we do laundry, we teach and teach and teach all day long and repeat, repeat, repeat.

I've settled into a routine but it's feeling more like a rut. Maybe it's the onset of winter or maybe it's the fact that we haven't gone anywhere the past two weekends. Whatever it is, I don't like it and I can't have it. We still have seven months on our contract and there's no way we're leaving before it ends.

When we first arrived, everything was new, exciting, and sometimes even mind boggling. My head was spinning in every direction so I could see everything and contemplate why the locals do what they do. I was constantly tripping over my feet or running into things because my eyes were never on the ground. I was too busy peeking inside all the shops as we passed, people watching, or staring at all the bright flashing signs at night. Everything was so enthralling. Everything was interesting. Everything was an adventure. Even going to the grocery store was a fun outing!

Unfortunately, now that "honeymoon" phase is over. Every day life seeps in and ruins your mindset. No longer does it feel like you are exploring every day. Everything is not an adventure anymore and I've been trying think of ways to snap out of it. Here are what I've come up with so far.

• Remembering why I came here in the first place. When I think it's too early to be getting up, I'm trying to think about how a year ago, I would be getting up over an hour earlier and then head on to a cubicle. Now, I spend my working hours in a classroom designed to look like a kitchen with hoards of kids running in and out every forty minutes. It's become routine now, but it's a helluva lot better than what I was doing before coming to Korea. 
• Accept the differences, don't fight them. I'd gotten to the point where little things would piss me off. One day, I got so angry that I had to take my shoes off at school and put on indoor shoes. Spencer couldn't believe it. "Really?" he said to me, "It's really that big of deal?" At the time, I shouted "YES!" but really, no, it's not. It's not worth feeling badly over and it's definitely not worth fighting because there is no way I will ever win that fight with Koreans. Let it go and move on.
• Take a day trip. Go exploring! I came here primarily to travel and experience living as an expat. Go talk to people, ride buses, and see things. Don't stay cooped up in the apartment all weekend long for any reason...well, unless it's raining the whole time and then you're okay. 
• Share your feeling with a friend or lover. I think it's good to talk (or write!) about things. It helps just to get it out there in the universe and not festering inside of you. Thankfully, I have Spencer here to listen to me bitch talk things out. I also have friends who have been in this exact situation and can help me through the rough patches.
• Look with new eyes. Open your mind and start looking at what's around you again. Analyze the things and people you see, just like in the beginning. Explore new places, take in all you can, and practice walking meditation. Do anything to get you interested in your surroundings.  

I've never been an expat before so I'm not sure if my methods will even work but all I can do is try. Are you or have you been an expat? Do you have any tips to give? I would love to hear your advice. 

Soju and Beer

Mixing beer and soju is a popular way to get hammered in South Korea. Soju is native to Korea and is a liquor made from rice that tastes similar to vodka but with less alcohol content. The mix of soju and beer is called somaek and is humorously thought of as a science. Many people have their own special mixing strategies to create the "best" somaek!

Last week, we went to a restaurant with some friends and upon ordering soju and beer, received these clever glasses. Want to be super happy?? Two parts soju and 8 parts beer. Want to get so drunk your eyes are rolling and you feel ill? Then 5:5 it is! These glasses were so fun to play/drink with! :)


Have you ever tried soju and beer? What did you think? Good, bad, or dangerous??

Hiking Jiri Mountain

 hiking Jiri mountain

 Fall is hiking season in South Korea. 

After the sweltering hot and humid summer, it's no wonder people are lining up to enjoy the crisp fall air in the mountains. Mountain ranges are never far away in Korea and with the trees making their yearly wardrobe changes from green to gold/orange/red, it's the perfect time to explore the outdoors.

This fall, our explorations began with a trip out to the highest mountain in mainland South Korea, Jiri mountain. Jiri mountain is located in the southwest part of the country spanning across of three provinces, Jeollanam-do, Jeollabuk-do, and Gyeongsangnam-do. It is about an hour northeast of our city, Suncheon, by car. The mountain is located in a 182 square mile (472 sq. km) national park along with ten Buddhist temples and multiple national treasures. 

bell at the temple we visited
 

We spent the day with one of our Korean friends and three of his friends. We visited a temple before we began our hike and saw a couple natural treasures that were perched on the mountain. The stone sculptures were placed behind the main temple area, almost secluded, with trees all around them. It was like they were a part of the forest and had just always been there. At around 1500 years old, that very well could be the case. 

Signs describing the statues and their origins were written in both Korean and English and as I read them, I couldn't help but think about all the people who had looked upon these two stones. I wondered what kinds of clothes people had worn while carving them. I thought about the Japanese invasion and how these two had survived the attacks. The history I stood before in the middle of the forest was sobering and steady. Here they were and here they would stand, just like this, possibly for another 1500 years. It put my measly 24 years into perspective. Would I ever create something that would last 1500 years?  

national treasures

 After admiring the national treasures, we began our hike. We walked on pavement at first, past shops and little restaurants tucked into a very narrow valley. When we reached the end of the pavement, we walked on a gravel road. The gravel road tapered into a rocky dirt path continuously leading up and up and up!

The scenery was delightful. The vibrant leaves were blowing in a cool, light wind and a babbling stream was constantly within our sights. We advanced up the path with countless other people. Everyone was in good spirits and enjoying the perfect hiking weather the day had given us. It was nice to be able to enjoy the temperate weather before the chill of winter sets in and all the bright fall color fades from the trees.

After walking for perhaps an hour we sat on a great rock in the middle of the stream to eat lunch. Our Korean comrades provided an excellent picnic lunch for us which, much to my surprise, included beer and soju! I had no idea Koreans liked to drink and hike but we weren't the only ones getting our drink on while perched on boulders in the river!

our picnic

After lunch we continued on our hike, all of us tipsy from the booze. We didn't make it all the way to the highest peak but we did hike for around 5-6 hours, in total. There were lots of color dotted vistas and the endless babbling water trailing along beside us made our journey all the more worth while. Breathing in the fresh mountain air while feeling a good buzz and working my muscles brought a smile to my face and a warmness in my soul. Spending time in nature is rejuvenating and inspiring. I will never tire of this vast and wonderful world. 

stone pillars on the mountain

See all of our Jiri Mountain hiking photos on Flickr.

Travel Photos: The Streets of Geoje, South Korea

How to Avoid Rude French People

The French have a bad reputation.  

They are known to be rude, unwilling to help you, and snooty. This is absolutely true of some French citizens (especially Parisians) but not all of them. If you can find the nice ones, you will have a much better experience.

I believe if you are armed with some simple French words and a few insights into French culture, you will be able to almost entirely avoid rude French people. Granted, you will encounter some meanies, but don't let them get to you! There are nice people in France, too!

The most important part of talking with a French person is to remember to say three key words: "bonjour" (hello), "merci" (thank you), and "au revoir" (goodbye) in every conversation you have. The French love their formalities. It is extremely rude if you start talking to a person without saying "bonjour" first or if you forget to say "merci" and "au revoir" at the end. If you don't say "bonjour" first, you just insulted your new acquaintance and do you really think they are going to be keen on helping you after that? Probably not. They may even give you wrong directions on purpose just because they think you're rude!

Say "bonjour" first! It can make all the difference!

Also, it will be a huge advantage if you at least try to speak French. If you are trying to speak French, the people will appreciate your effort. They may even take pity on you and start speaking to you in English!

If you know absolutely zero French and are not willing to give it a go, you still MUST learn the three key words mentioned above and one sentence. That sentence is, "Parlez-vous Anglais?" (par-lay-voo on-glay) which means, "Do you speak English?"

If they say "yes", speak slowly and remember to say "merci" and "au revoir" afterwards. If they say "no", say "merci, au revoir" and ask someone else. Someone will help you eventually!

Remember, people who live in Paris tend to have a tougher shell. They are big city people, like New Yorkers, but with a longer lunch and better wardrobe. They live in city that is famous for its beauty and culture, and they know it. Paris is one of the most visited cities in the world and tourists are ever present. So, please excuse them if they don't have time to talk to a tourist every day of the week. They are probably hurrying off to the next-great-artists' first gallery opening or something.

Tidbits to be aware of...

 Here are a few things to be aware of. If you know about these annoyances before experiencing them, you will hopefully be able to accept them with grace and less stress.

•  The French don't like to wait in line and will shamelessly cut in front of you if they think they can get away with it. There is nothing you can do about it so I thought I should warn you to be cool and think "whatever! I'm in Paris!" when this happens to you.

•  When visiting a restaurant, expect the worst service of your life. Sometimes it will be horrendous and sometimes it will be okay but it will never be good. Expect no pleasantries. There will be no, "Hi my name is Pierre and I will be your server today. What would you like to drink?" Absolutely NONE of that. The tip is already worked into your bill, so they don't need to be nice or deliver your food in a reasonable amount of time and you don't have to leave any extra Euros on the table.

• You will never be instant BFFs with a French person. Friendships in French culture are held very highly. It will take a while before you will become someone's friend but once you do, they will be your friend forever. 

• When visiting Paris, don't expect too much; this isn't a movie. Some people get an idea of what Paris will be like in their head before arriving only to discover it's not as glamorous as they thought. Chelsea says it well when she says, "The city will be dirty, crowded, loud, and indifferent -- but it will be beautiful and breathtaking."

Another thing to remember is not every French person is a Parisian and many French people who don't live in Paris, don't like Parisians! I encourage you to explore more of France and see for yourself how kind the average non-Parisian French person can be!


Have you experienced the stereotypical rude Parisian?? Do you think if you read this article it would have prepared you for them? Or maybe you're from Paris yourself and have some insight into the matter--I would love to hear your thoughts!